Friday, September 11, 2015

Women Vs Men.

Many and many times I've thought why in my way of thinking women are admired than the men. Sometimes I thought whether it could be my way of thinking. But an article I recently read clarified my doubt regarding this. That women have more pychic energy than men is proven scientifically. That's why it’s said that there's woman behind each and every man’s successs. 

Most of us say male dominated society. But as per my experience I'd rather say male cowardice society. It's not being arrogant that we're powerful. No. The world is beautiful when men and women love each other, when they're unified with love. It's only the atrocity or some sexual crime against women should be uprooted and finally truth has to win 'cause truth bows its head to none. But at the same time men are afraid of competition from women; it can be any where whether in a profession or in other casual matters. They're afraid inside that's why they shout outside and try to be over authoritative. 

There are many women who shattered all obstacles and gleamed as celebrities. Well . It’s not about gleaming in a lime light. But doing some service to the society whatever we can. If women are in important designations they perform in a much more bettter way than men one perfect example is Pradeepa Pateel. 

In the view of spirituality as well it's said that women have much more psychic energy. Bhagavan Sai says it’s the women who realize spirituality far more earlier than men. Sri Ramakrushna witnessed  Kali matha in all women.He made to sit his wife in front of him and offered flowers to  her and offered pooja to his wife.It's not commanding men to worship us but paying our homage to such a great and noble soul.

Vivekananda said that he has came across many great and noble souls and among them very selected souls are women and he said it in a proud manner. One of his disciples sister Nivedhidha is a woman who brought Vivekananda's message world wide. 

Once there was a lady whose husband was a debauchee and she decided to correct him. Once the wife was in the neighbour village and her husband in heavy rain went in search of her and assuming snakes to be ropes climbed down from them and went to her. His wife's reply is even more interesting. She said in a very calm manner "my dear husband why do you have such a mad frenzy over this perishable body. If you turn your same concern in realizing the soul you'd rather attain salvation. When my soul loves your soul what else is important than that. He, with tears rivering down his cheeks made his mind to be a well disciplined person. These kind of noble things can be done only with the love and care of a woman.

So let's change ourselves. Rather than having a separated feeling that we're men and you're women let's have a feeling that we're individuals and we're here to perform our destined roles and cultivate a fellow feeling. And no fights between lovers or husbands and wives.