Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage.

Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage?

Well. This question is highly amusing in Western societies where most of the or almost all the marriages are love marriages. But the case is different in oriental countries where the system of the family is very orthodox or based on false notions. Often a girl is not allowed to go anywhere alone, for her protection her brother is sent along with her. I find no fault in sisterly brotherly love and even it’s not wrong in doing so when the societies’ attitudes or wrong notions are similar as well. When she attains the age of assent if she loves someone it’s a great blunder. The parents get highly tensed. Well, obviously, bluntly I don’t understand what is wrong in love marriages. Of course teenage love arises often ‘cause of the attraction to opposite sex. But an adult love, where there’s mutual understanding, mutual trust, mutual respect and mutual friendship and the couple is authentic in their love I find no reason to resist this kind of love. But if the lovers are keeping the affair stealthily from their parents I don’t have much appreciation towards that love. In stating love I mean a kind of love affair with the parental approval. Even an advanced kind of love is say two people meet, they fall in love, they don’t express it, they split and after waiting for 5 years they get married. This is called divine love. People argue this kind of love is impractical. But in this example the girl and the boy got married eventually. That’s called destiny. In this example if those destiny was marrying someone else it might have occurred without marrying the same one. While even destiny is not something destined. The destiny is based on vibrations. If you stay and wait with love and patience it’ll come into a reality ‘cause it’s those vibrations which works out. There’s nothing called destiny. Destiny can be changed on behalf of personal effort.

So I request from the parents of this world most particularly parents of oriental countries like India and SriLanka that there’s nothing wrong in a kind of love I’ve mentioned and bless your kids for a happy life ahead!!!